• La Vida Loca

    Live Until You Die

    I do my best thinking when I drive and since I just drove over an hour round trip for a HaleyCakes cupcake, I did some primo thinking. My brain stew was all about how once in my “youth” someone made a comment that life would be over when I hit my 40s. I can’t even remember who it was, but if I could tell them one thing, I’d say this, “Life isn’t over until you stop living.” So keep living until you die. Don’t just exist. In other words Carpe the crap out of that Diem, my lovelies! Life in my 40s is much better than it was in my 30s. And life in my 30s was better than my 20s. I don’t want to speed my life up, but let me just…

  • Across the Universe

    How I got my happy on in the northeast!

    I’m spontaneous. When I go on a trip, I just go with the flow. I see what I wanna see, and do what I wanna do. I’m a planner. Before I go on a trip, I usually know what I’m doing, eating, and even wearing every single day. Which of these do you think is me? Both are! I’ve done trips on both ends of the spectrum, and while I enjoy my travel companions, my solo trips tend to be the ones of the first variety, and in turn are some of my favorite excursions. Tor worked during the day and had meetings most nights, so for the better part of the day I did only what I wanted to do. On the first day, it snowed so I sat in the hotel…

  • La Vida Loca

    One-sided conversations with the dead

    This is one of my favorite places to be. Yup, it’s a graveyard. No, I don’t know a soul there. I just like to hang out under this tree and talk to the family¬† buried underneath it. I asked the parents once why the daughters were segregated from the rest of the family, but no one had a good answer for me. They don’t talk much…or at all. Probably a good thing. Sometimes I wish they did. I want to know their stories, but for now I’ll just make up my own.